Day Six

Attentiveness

Posted by Nathan Beck on August 11, 2023 · 12:59 AM

I'm writing this right after we got off the call tonight, and today's topic of discussion is your attentiveness.

Something I appreciate an absolute ton is the pure amount of attention you pay to details, and the attention you give me. Yes, I may be completely enamored by the attention you give me. It makes me feel like the most important person in the world. What's more is your attention to how I'm feeling and how you can try to help. You always know when I'm feeling off and bring it up very lightly for me, and I appreciate it a lot.

I also appreciate how much detail you have with things in my life. You write down so many details about me that make me feel like such a valuable person and make me feel so much caringness and love from you. You remember so much about me, and even when you don't, you probably have it written down somewhere.

You make events on your calendar that are such simple things in my life that make me really feel like you just care so much about those simple things. I love how you care about them; it makes all the small things in my life feel better.

Despite your dismay, I actually love coming across things that you've written down about me that you're maybe a little embarrassed to actually tell me you wrote down. Little phrases I say or things I do, habits I have, foods I eat. All of it makes me happier than you will ever know and I know it is just natural for you to do such. However, it seriously means the world to me that you care about me in that immense of a way that you have a running Google Document about me.

Anyways, that's a small rant about how your attentiveness makes me feel!